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All of a sudden

Love is something unpredictable, a simple look and you feel butterflies flying in your stomach, one touch and you’re already in the seventh heaven. Everything happens so quickly that you don’t even realize how it ended.

   At my seventeen years I can’t make a strong opinion about how the relationship between a man and a woman should be. But as we live in a modern society, we have the possibility to watch different movies where are often represented typical situations about a couple’s life. Usually women are dependent on men, even in that case when they’re housewives, but the situation had considerably changed. Now, a woman wants to be a business lady, to be a part of an upper society and forget about housework and her little kids, if she plans to have them, of course. The relationships between women and men are so various, that even though you know those people, it’s hard to understand why are they still loving each other.

   Someone said that: ‘ in a relationship someone gives the love and the other one receives it’, and I think that’s true, because two people loving each other equally are probably at a stage of developing their relationship, but not sure that they wanna live their life together.

   What we all need is a little impulse to make our dreams come true, a few seconds of bravery to say what we think, to open our heart and let the love do the justice and unite two loving hearts. We are the love we share, the smile we keep on our faces and all the feelings that we just can’t keep inside. A kiss can be a prize, a blessing, a wonder, but however we understand its meaning, it will always express love, care and affection.

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Dealing with arguments

  We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them. – Albert Einstein  

 Almost everyday we have disagreements with people at school, work, at home and even in public places, with friends, with partners and other different persons. The thing, is that arguing isn’t the right solution to a problem, sometimes it causes bigger problems than you had before.

   When an argument happen, the most important thing is to try not to let a calm discussion turn into a heated argument or even worse. First of all, pay attention to how you begin the conversation. If you’re the person who is wrong, just admit it ! That is a good way to avoid an argument. Saying ‘sorry’ is also a method, just apologize and the other person will have much more respect for you in the future.  Try not to exaggerate, cause this will just make the other  person think you’re being unreasonable and will probably make him or her stop listening to your arguments. Sometimes we just can’t avoid a discussion turning into an argument. But if you do start arguing with someone, it is necessary to keep things under control. One of the most important things is not to raise your voice. Raising your voice will make the other person lose their temper too. If you find yourself raising your voice, stop for a moment and take a deep breath. If you can talk calmly and quietly, you’ll find your partner will be more ready to think about what you’re saying.  Try to stick to the point, keep to the topic you’re talking about. Don’t bring up old arguments, just concentrate on solving the one problem you’re having and leave the other things for another time.  Call ‘Time out’ if you think that an argument is getting out of control. You can continue the discussion the next day when perhaps both of you are feeling less tense and angry. You will probably find that the problem is much easier to solve when you’re both had a good night’s sleep.

   Some people think that arguing is always bad, but in fact conflict is a normal part of life, and an important part of any relationship.If you don’t learn to argue properly, then when a real problem comes along, you won’t be prepared to face it together. Think of all the smaller argument as training sessions, and learn how to argue cleanly and fairly. It will help your relationship become stronger and last longer.

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